After over 30 years of random observations of lustful obsessions and oversexed dating practices in our colleges and society, this author and educator seriously believes that it is time for men and ...ver maisAfter over 30 years of random observations of lustful obsessions and oversexed dating practices in our colleges and society, this author and educator seriously believes that it is time for men and women for us to adopt the African betrothal system. The system actually helps women save their dignity, life and marriage.ver menos